Hi everyone, i want to share with you my sadness at losing my friend at the weekend. She battled hard against the cancer and was as positive as any person can be, wore colurful wigs when the chemo made her hair fall out and cracked jokes with us all up till the end.
How familiar is this story and i know there will be many of you that have experienced the same feeling as i am having right now.
Nothing changes because i am a medium although i do know that my friend will be ok on the other side and will be jumping up and down trying to get my attention to relay messages to the family, bless her.(least i hope she will)
I am lucky to have many friends that are mediums so i guess that is an advantage for me to be able to heal and have the right closure that is needed.
I also know she will be in attendance at her very own funeral and that we had better make it right !!!
Every day i meet people that have lost a dear one so i alway's have a constant reminder of the pain of seperation. Some say how awful that must be for mediums but because of the messages from the other side it does give me the belief that we never really leave anyone and the body is just the space suit that anchors us in the physical realm.
Learn to embrace each other at all times, even when it is hard to do so. Forgive and move on in life with courage and don't leave loose ends with the people you love. Tell them that you love them. (even if they don't want to hear it!)
Remember also that you are human and it takes time to grieve and that it is ok to grieve. We are not machines and the fast pace of todays living is consuming our lives, taking our time away from family and friends. Don't let that take control over your life.
Meditation is a good tool to centre yourself and create a sense of well being.
So love to all of you out there and here is a cute message that i have been given permission to share.
A lovely lady came to me for a reading and it was all bobbing along nicely with bits and pieces coming in and suddenly i felt the energy shift and a lady (we will call her sandra ) came in. It was a mother in law. She was sewing (quite ordinary information i thought ) until... i got the image of a ghost !!! How do i put this i thought to myself. (not wanting to appear insane )
Did Sandra make a white cloak or something resembling that i asked??? " "No" came the reply. "Well" i said "Sandra is showing me Casper the ghost ???" "Oh, i know what that is" came the reply. "Sandra made all the kid's costumes and a white ghost one just like Casper !"
This lovely mother in law made lot's of costumes for the theatre also and i thought she was very clever bringing that to my attention and i am glad i didn't chicken out !!!
See what spirit can do to prove they are around. I think it is lovely.
Please keep the questions coming if it takes a while for me to respond i am not being rude i will get back to you but i may be a little busy meditating !!! and not running myself ragged!!!! haha, i have to practise what i preach !!
Take care everyone xxxx best of love Jackie.